its no excuse
I have read a lot of stories from this site and wanted to add my 2 cents worth.
I have been married for 22 years now and like most woman have pain, irritability, and so one. The only way my husband knows that its my time of the month is when hes not getting any. I keep my pain, irritablity, and disconfort to myself. Why would someone be so mean to someone they are suppost to love and care for. If I can't control by behavior than I am the one that needs help, so ladies be nice.